想起大学密友S在英国与一个来自香港的年轻男孩K发生婚外恋情时对我说的话。她说因为两个人都太清醒的认识到这段感情没有未来,所以根本无法全心投入享受其中的甜蜜。换成你呢?如果看到铺满鲜花的温柔道路的尽头只是一个无法回头的孤独的荒野,你又真的能够愉快洒脱的继续走下去吗?
思维突然又跳到学传媒专业时“情绪与交流”课上老师的论点:如果经历极度喜悦的结果是对平淡的幸福不再感到触动,那也许人们就最好不要经历狂喜。面对这样的情景,你的选择又是怎样呢?是要平平淡淡才是真还是即使是昙花一现也要体验一刹那的极至?
这样的问题,就连聪明的我也答不上来:)
Want to be a better girl, for you...
Name: Zhuo
Sign: (Smart, indenpendent and free spirited) Aquarius
Hobby: Shopping, Karaoki singing, dancing, camping, BBQing
Collections: Jewelry, eye shadow, cartoon pictures, cool girlfriends
Attractiveness: too many to list ^_^
Weakness: not good with kids or animal, can never pass 50-meter dash test in PE class
Favorite food: Beef jerky, almost any type of fruits
Favorite fashion brand: Calvin Klein, Bebe, Aldo...
Dream: Make a TV program talking about different cultures while travelling around the world